Gay issues have been in the news a lot lately, from the debate over same-sex marriage in Congress to a sickening rash of gay-bashing in New York City. okcupid see a lot of emotion out there, instead of information, and okcupid wanted to provide some data-based context on sexuality so that people might make better choices about what they say, think, and do.

okcupid run a massive dating site and therefore have unparalleled insight into sex and relationships. Here’s what okcupid found, in numbers and charts.

You must read this article, the figures surprised me.

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